The sail area above the shrouds is not very big. I expect that it's no more than what a laser carries in sail area, if that. Have you seen the size of a laser mast? Or, how much bend they put in them and how they bend with wind gusts? Oh yes, and have you seen what kind of conditions they will go out in? In high winds you're much more likely to damage your mast by turning turtle and having it stuck to the bottom!

The boat is going to go over before you put too much stress on the mast up top.
Another example of good use of a bendy mast is with the fastest sail craft in the world, a windsurfer. Windsurfers use mast bend as THE method of tuning their rig. If you watch a windsurfer in high winds you can see most definitely how the top of the rig being flexible helps with gusts control. The top of the mast flexes and lets the top of the sail twist out. It's the same idea with a daysailer but just not as obvious. As you learn to control your sails more and pay attention to sail twist you will observe how the bendy mast helps you out.
One of the things that I really like about sailing is paying attention to the subtleties. We are definitely talking subtleties here and unless you have a way to measure the difference you may not be able to tell.
KC